Simulating a Button Push

I'm not sure I fully understand what you're asking, but.. If you know the window handle of the button, you can send it the BM_CLICK message -- "An application sends a BM_CLICK message to simulate the user clicking a button. This message causes the button to receive the WM_LBUTTONDOWN and WM_LBUTTONUP messages, and the button's parent window to receive a BN_CLICKED notification message."

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